Hope Relentless
Marriage Counselor Near Arizona Mills in Tempe
Disagreements that end with both of you getting something real. Differences treated as information, not an argument to win. Decisions you both chose, instead of one of you outlasting the other. We coach you together at our Chandler office, about twenty minutes from Arizona Mills, or online.
30 minutes, free, no obligation. Both of you on the call.
A big shopping trip is a stack of small decisions. Which store first, how long, what to buy, when to eat. Arizona Mills is a place built around choices.
Most couples handle small choices with a quiet system. One decides, one goes along, and everyone moves on. It works until the decision is big. Then the either/or shows up: my way or yours. We start with a different mindset: we are on the same team.
We Are on the Same Team: Choosing Both/And
The freedom of the both/and, not the tyranny of the either/or.
Move to the same side of the table
Picture the issue sitting on the table between you, and the two of you on the same side looking at it. Us versus the problem, not me versus you.
Say what you want, in the positive
What you want, not what you are against. "I'd like a slower Saturday" is something your spouse can work with.
Treat the difference as information
A different preference is part of who your spouse is. It is often a strength you have not used yet.
Look for the both/and
Ask what would let each of you get something real out of this. Flexibility is strength, not surrender.
Not every decision has a both/and. Plenty do, and you will find more of them once you are both looking.
Getting Here From Arizona Mills
We use Arizona Mills at 5000 S Arizona Mills Cir as the starting point. Google Maps' fastest route runs along US-60 E and AZ-101 Loop S, about 20 minutes and 9.4 miles on a weekday afternoon. A route along S Kyrene Rd is about 8.2 miles and 21 minutes. Our building sits at the southwest corner of Loop 101 and Ray Road. We also meet online.
To see the whole approach, visit our main page for a marriage counselor Chandler couples can meet with in person or online.
Hope Relentless is not affiliated with Arizona Mills, its owners, or any store there. Our office is in Chandler, not in Tempe.
3075 W Ray Rd #200
Chandler, AZ 85226
This page covers one spot near our Chandler office. We've mapped the other places around Chandler, Mesa and Tempe so you can find the one nearest you.
What This Looks Like With Us
Built around your real week
Sessions happen at our Chandler office or online. We practice the both/and on real decisions from your own week.
Both of you, every time
We don't offer individual sessions. Each of you owns your own side, and both of you grow at the same time. Nobody is the project.
Coached by someone who's been there
You'll work with Sarah-Gayle or me, matched on your consultation. Sarah-Gayle holds a Master of Arts in Clinical Psychology with an emphasis in Marriage and Family Therapy from Azusa Pacific, and works here as a coach, not a clinician. I'm an ordained minister. We've been married more than twenty years and have coached thousands of couples.
Quick Questions
How far is your office from Arizona Mills?
About 20 minutes by car, based on a weekday afternoon in Google Maps. Our office is at 3075 W Ray Rd #200 in Chandler. We also meet online.
What if we really do want different things?
Most couples do, on something. The goal is not for one of you to win. We teach a both/and approach so a difference becomes information about your spouse, not a fight to settle.
Get on the Same Side of the Table
Thirty minutes, free, both of you on the call. We'll tell you honestly whether we're the right fit.
Or call (623) 343-4764
There's always, always hope.